If, like me, you feel like there are never enough opportunities to knit with friends, then join us between 2pm – 4pm on the last Sunday of every month (during term time) for "Crafternoon Tea with Katherine". For £3 you’ll get a cuppa, cake (or another sweet treat) and the pleasure of my company and that of other crafters in my studio / workshop at Deanfoot, Grantshouse TD11 3RR.
The first of these Crafternoon Tea's will be on Sunday 29th March – a perfect way to recover from the shock of the start of British Summer Time!
Our afternoons are completely informal, as in there'll be no workshop-style teaching but obviously I'll be on hand to assist – where I can! – with any of your knitting queries. This also means that you don't have to book – just turn up as and when you're able to – but it's always nice to know that you're coming (and is helpful in terms of the baking schedule!).
I look forward to welcoming you to Deanfoot! Katherine x
As I sit enjoying the warmth of the fire and a cup of tea, I hope that, twenty-five miles away, you are sitting enjoying the warmth of your friends and a cuppa on this, the last ever Woolly Wednesday (WW). I am so sorry that I'm not with you to share in this momentous evening – Husband's work-related absence from home is annoying on many levels, though this is perhaps the most significant "miss".
We may not be in the same room but, nonetheless, I thought that I would share this time with you to say "thank you". It is no understatement to say that meeting you, our subsequent professional collaborations and, most especially, the WWs have changed my life, and for the better. For so much the better.
Yes, WW ticked the obvious boxes: I knitted, ate cake, drank tea and chatted with a lovely group of people. I have been inspired, so very inspired, to try new designers, embrace new ideas and knit with new yarn. However, the real gift of WW has been the friends I've made, and I very much count you among them. It was beyond my wildest dreams to think that I would be so fortunate as to find such a wealth of true, honest, loyal, stand-beside-you-and-be-counted friends, but there you go: It happened. And once all the cake has been eaten, the tea drunk, the knitting completed (hah!), we will remain.
Please do not take the closure of the shop as a reflection on you, because it isn't: It's a wider reflection on us, your customers, and probably has a lot to do with our departure from the physical shopping to the virtual – a habit that has now forced your business along a similar path. You have always shown tireless energy and insight in your ventures (shall we talk again of the success story of your crafty kits
?) and, perhaps after a wee rest to re-group, I suspect you’ll be up and at it again.
Sometimes we don't help ourselves, being the fickle lot of crafters that we are. Not me, obviously, it's knitting all the way with me – can just about bring myself to brandish a crochet hook from time to time (...though I do like a whirl on my sewing machine...) – but often as not, you'll find a crafter who has all the makings for needle-felting, beading, vintage furniture painting and more - in addition to her love of yarn. And though you catered for us all, we failed to meet your expectations. And for that, I am very sorry. You supported local crafters by providing them with precious shop-space to sell their own creations; you supported teachers such as myself by inviting us in to do workshops; you support local and national crafting events while wearing a number of hats, including that of owner and manager of your wonderful shop. It is true to say that the loss of The Handmade Store
is too big for any number of beads to fill.
But we have not lost you. I will not be alone in taking comfort from the fact that it is only the shop that's going: Jo, the entrepreneur, the astute business woman is continuing her crafty work and, on whichever path she chooses, will triumph.
And so I wish you goodnight, and in words far better than mine:
"You never know what's around the corner. It could be everything. Or it could be nothing. You keep putting one foot in front of the other, and then one day you look back and you've climbed a mountain."
― Tom Hiddleston
Jo, take this moment to look behind you, for went the clouds lift, and the people disperse, only then will you see to what great heights you have reached xx
A long time ago, maybe three years ago, my mother-in-law gifted me some Cornish yarn to knit Oldest Son a traditional Cornish Gansey. She had provided enough yarn to knit the size for 3 – 4 year olds but, upon reflection, I opted to buy another skein so that I could knit the larger size. No, this wasn't just a ploy to delay the knitting; I was trying to be practical: An energetic, bike-riding, scootering, exuberant five year old would be more likely to get wear out of a thick jumper, warm enough to be worn without a coat, than a three year old. A three-year old without an older brother already doing these activities, maybe.
Whenever it was last year that I broke my toe, I started knitting said jumper and then, after completing the back, I stopped. I can't remember why. There need not be any major reason as this pattern of behaviour isn't so unusual for me (if I ever let you into my unfinished project cupboard...) but I suspect that it might have had something to do with not really liking it. Yet feeling that I should. Or at least feeling that I should knit it regardless of liking it or not. I guess that's what happens when someone you love gives you yarn to knit for another person that you both love and then she dies before said project is started – let alone completed – so there was no opportunity for further discussion. Clearly my issue is with the untimely death and nothing whatsoever to do with my untimely knitting.
And so the jumper sat, untouched for several more months. Then Oldest Son turned from four to five and overnight, he was immediately loosing out on potential jumper-wearing days because I hadn't finished knitting the thing! Yet still I didn't pick up the needles.
This Christmas, however, it accompanied us as my third holiday knitting project. It travelled from here to Manchester, to Lapland, to mid-Wales, back to Cornwall and then home and how much did I knit? Not a single stitch. If I tell you that Holiday Project Number One was completed en route to Manchester and Holiday Project Number Two en route from Cornwall to home then you can correctly surmise that pretty much the only knitting I did was in the car. In fact, it was just as I was pulling out Holiday Project Number Three that Husband announced that it was my turn to drive. (Honestly, these men. Since when does West Cornwall to East Berwickshire require two drivers?!)
But at least the jumper had made it out of the cupboard, and to the top of the "Most Likely to be Knitted" list. And there, in the honest light of a winter's day, I admitted that I really didn't think that it was going to work in the way that we hoped and, as such, it was going to be a waste. In case you think that this is some fluffy get-out clause, here are my very practical reasons:
(1) I don't think the colour will suit Oldest Son. If you think that I have pale skin; he is my delicate English rose-boy. And a creamy off-white does nothing for him except highlight the bags under his eyes.
(2) Have I mentioned that Oldest Son is a boy? A five year old boy? Who eats like a five year old, plays like a boy. In a white jumper?! Err, no. Three mins outside and his cuffs will be filthy. And then there's snack time where, even if we stick to bland treats (warm milk and raisins, for example), he's still likely to be wearing some of it.
(3) I don't like the open neckline. For a jumper that could, in all other respects, function like a coat, the neckline will let in the cold air. Even if Oldest Son claims not to feel the cold, I will be cold looking at him. (I'm still trying to defrost after spending an evening with him and his bare feet. Me: Socks, slippers and umpteen layers. Him: No socks, no slippers and apparently fine.)
And then I was reminded of "Svala
", a pattern that I have long since coveted. Loved enough to put my entire family, including my parents, into a car and drive them for miles in the vein hope that we could purchase both yarn and pattern. But it wasn't to be. (Thankfully, we were able to partake of some rather delicious tea and cake so it wasn't a completely wasted trip.)
So I frogged it.
This time I didn't need the able assistance of a friend to do it for me (thanks again J!) and, in fact, I probably needed to do it myself. To experience first hand the sensation of undoing all of that work, the promise – to myself, my mother-in-law, my son. And while it was easy to return the yarn is back in a usable state, I'm not sure it'll be quite as easy for my conscience.
Jumper number two is under-way. Jumper number two accompanies me pretty much everywhere. It's not the smallest of mobile knitting projects (given that it's a jumper and I'm knitting in double (which means I've got two balls of yarn to transport)) but it is one of the easiest: I'm knitting stocking-stitch in the round. So, yes, I can talk, drink tea, eat cake, keep an eye on the boys and knit at the same time. Its near-constant presence is also providing me with some comfort: I like the fact that it's nearly always to hand, I love the fact that I'm knitting it. I love knitting it, in fact.
So maybe this time Oldest Son stands a chance of receiving his completed jumper. And his grandmother’s wish will finally be fulfilled.
But in the meantime, thank you for the knitting.
May I begin by taking this opportunity to wish you all a very, very, Happy New Year.
No doubt, you'll have started 2015 with one or two (or maybe more) resolutions, some of which may be yarn-related, some may not. Needless to say, I also have mine. Top of the list is to work on correcting my posture which, and this is an official, medical description, is "awful". I cannot argue. This diagnosis might have been slightly easier to hear had the therapist not voiced almost the exact same phrases that my mother has been using for most of my life, but it does not shake the truth: My posture is awful and, if I don't do something now, it might seriously affect my quality of life in the future. Now these words, these will make me sit bolt upright.
The ensuing lecture on the perils of modern living wasn't, I have to admit the most enthralling: Yes, we're all using computers more, sitting badly at desks and keyboards more, slumping across our sofas while reading / typing on our phones and tablets more, driving our cars more and, as a consequence, turning back into Neanderthals, but it seems that this particular primitive is exacerbating the problem by knitting more while sitting badly, often in the car (though not driving, obviously). Being the coward that I sometimes am, I didn't mention this significant "other" in my life for fear that he recommended some limiting measures, such as 'not knitting as much'. Onset of these most recent symptoms has been preceded by running (albeit slowly) and whilst he hadn't told me to quit this (quite the opposite, in fact), he wasn't to be trusted to make a similar prognosis regarding the sedentary practice of needle holding.
Given that I'm a 21st century gal, I had hoped that he could fix my postural problem with a few appropriate re-adjustments of the spine or similar but apparently the trouble is beyond that kind of instant repair. Apparently I'm looking at years to correct the issues. So what does this mean?
Well, apart from expecting to see this resolution at the top of next year's list, I have been more mindful of the way that I stand and sit and although this usually ends up with me not knowing how to do either "properly", I hope that my awareness will help me find the right path to, err, backfulness.
I am more conscious of my posture while I knit. I usually knit sitting down (although it wouldn’t be so unusual to find me knitting, standing in front of the cooker while waiting for the kettle to boil) and adopting the correct posture when sitting against a chair back is easier than when standing surrounded by air. I have never been one of those knitters to secure a needle under one armpit, so I guess I've saved myself a twist or two (though, no doubt, child birth has removed any potential brownie points so let's not compare). I tend to knit with circular needles, even when knitting a flat piece of fabric, and so by trying to raise my hands off my lap while knitting, I hope to stop my head constantly looking down quite so far (which has created a "near-permanently bent neck, which makes my head look detached from my body". All in all, I think I'm taking these analyses quite well.) What this new position is doing to my wrists and arms, I really don't know, but it doesn't ache and, perhaps more importantly, I'm aware that my shoulders are less rounded.
I have enrolled in a Pilates class (first one next week) in an attempt to re-educate my muscles so I might, at last, re-learn how to stand up straight. Going to this class is a bigger deal that you might first think because, unlike the daytime versions I attend, this is an evening class, and not just any evening, but Wednesday evening. This means that I'm going to have to leave my fortnightly knitting group early. Yes, I'm that committed to Project Back. Don't worry though, I plan to get around this inconvenience by going to the knitting group earlier so overall it'll balance out, but that doesn't stop it having an impact on our family life and the increasing number of night-times that I'm out knitting, by which I mean working :-) But who knows, maybe I'll be brave enough to ask the Pilates instructor the best way to hold my needles – coming straight from Woolly Wednesday, I'll have them to hand.
I also plan to go back to the aforementioned Voice of Doom for further re-adjustments and some good ol' fashioned plain speaking.
And in the meantime? I knit, obviously (and I look forward to sharing a few fruits of my needles in the next day or two). I type on my laptop (I'm Old Skool! How else do you suppose I did this). Read / send messages on my phone and tablet, drive my car and basically carry on with my 21st Century life. I've also been running and, perhaps you should sit down for this, have remained pain free. The road to (near) complete back recovery may be a long one, but with my needles and yarn to accompany me, it'll also be an enjoyable, satisfying and who knows? Maybe even a productive one too.
I've started knitting Sarah Hatton's stunning "Harwood
", part of Rowan Studio Issue 2. As you can see, this is a long-line, beautifully cabled jacket. I am, of course, knitting it in blue.
Now, this is a completely new style of project for me in that it's longer (in length!) and straighter than anything that I've knitted before, but I have the yarn and like the look of it so thought that I'd give it a go – although it may be that this perhaps isn't the cleverest of ideas.
For those who know me, you know that my body shape is pear. You also know that I'm quite tall. In her book "Knit to Fit
", the brilliant Sharon Brant actually cites this jacket as a good example for someone who is petite (oh dear) and "is a great design for athletic shapes" (oh dear, oh dear). Perhaps I should stop knitting now? (It's a serious question.) However, the reason behind purchasing this book was because Sharon shows you how to adapt patterns to make them fit properly and so I have just referred to it for advice on adding some shaping around the waist. Which is a possibility. So, so far: Option One is to scrap the project; Option Two is to add some waist shaping.
In her description of 'Garments that suit Pear Shapes', Sharon recommends "shaped, short sweaters and cardigans" (i.e. most of what I've been knitting for myself, which is kinda reassuring), so an Option Three could be to shorten the jacket as well as to shape it. However, she then goes onto say that "belted cardigans are good, as are patterned garments" – is this not "Harwood"? Any shorter and the jacket wouldn't need a belt, right? So Option Four is to knit as stated in the pattern, without any alterations.
What do you think? My needles are poised as I wait for your answer.....
You know me: I'm not a one project girl. A small part of this is due to trying to balance my work knitting with that that I knit for pleasure, but the largest part of this is my moth-like tendencies to new yarn, new patterns and the glorious new cast on. For this reason, it is only recently that I've been able to justify casting on a new garment project for me. Yes, I have two pairs of socks on the needles, one headband and a scarf but since these are only small projects, they will be completed in only a few knitting sessions.* A larger project – of the type on which I used to thrive – now that requires real commitment in these days of very limited knitting-for-me-time, and so there was no small amount of pressure to ensure that I correctly chose The One.
Part of the motivation for The One is my diminishing wardrobe of knitwear. It's like I woke up one morning and suddenly realised that I didn't have enough jumper-type garments for every day wear. If memory serves me correctly, this happened last autumn too – but since this season quickly passes into winter (especially for a cold soul such as myself) – the panic was short-lived. This year, however, it seems that I could no longer ignore the problem and clearly hand-knitting new transitional garments was deemed the most sensible way forward.
On one level, this solution does hold certain merit. After all, I do have quite a lot of yarn and several patterns to choose from. I also have the skills necessary to knit the things I want to – it's just the small question of time. (Apparently the success of most projects is in the details.... Ahem.)
Now normally, I would go straight to my beloved Rowan
for both pattern and yarn. Not only am I guaranteed to find something that I'll love but the finished garment will also serve as work-wear so it's win win. This time though, I thought that I'd try something different: A whole new designer and some non-Rowan yarn. (Don't underestimate what a Big Deal this is for me. It's like going off Cadbury's chocolate.) As is often the way with these things, I stumbled across a lovely pattern in Ysolda Teague’s new book "The Rhinebeck Sweater
" and it's Ysolda's own "Pumpkin Ale
" that I took a fancy too (if you too are interested, note errata
for this pattern). The jacket doesn't look like much from the front but one glimpse of the back and you're in for a real treat: Beautiful cables, flattering shaping – it really is stunning. On a previous visit to Kathy's Knits
, I'd picked up some of Rennie
's Carnation Supersoft 4ply. Okay, I'll be honest: I bought her out of it. The colour is an exact match for a treasured (but now worn out) jumper gifted to me by one of my brothers but since I didn't have a pattern, I took all that she had – wouldn't want to run out! Since this wasn't the yarn suggested by Ysolda, I carefully knitted up several swatches until I found the correct needle size using two strands together to achieve the required tension. And then the knitting could begin.
And it's been going on for quite a while. But this is all to be expected given the small amount of actual knitting time – and whilst it would be nice if I had an occasional visit from the knitting fairy, I'm okay with the slow speed of progress.
Fast forward a few months to last weekend when I was chatting knitting with my aunt. Like my mother, my aunt knits a lot but and it's great that we have this in common. It's always interesting seeing what others are knitting and browsing through their knitting books. My aunt is knitting a jumper for one of my cousins from Debbie Bliss's "Land Girls
", more cables but after that the similarities to "Pumpkin Ale" quickly end, and whilst pretty and wholly appropriate for its recipient, the jumper is not for me. Another design from this book caught my eye: Think Red Riding Hood for grown-ups. A lovely hooded (red) cabled jacket, perhaps mid thigh length. It's very appealing. However, further study revealed that it has no way of fastening: No buttons (although it has straight edges so it might not be too difficult to add a band), but probably best suited to a belt fastening – only I'm not. And then I took my aunt to show her my project, my cabled jacket with – wait for it – no way to fasten the front. And it's shaped so adding a button band would be impossible, belts are a no-no – but then so are edges that just flap around, letting in the cold and making me cross my arms in desperation to keep in the heat. Was I knitting this to "wear around the house"? What, as some glorified bed jacket? No, I don't think so! I'm not putting in all those hours of toil for a woollen garment that I can't wear out because I'll be cold.
And now, on reflection, it seems that I won't be putting in any further hours at all. I have reached the conclusion that this garment isn't for me. Yes, it's very nice but it's not Katherine. So there remains only one course of action: Frog the work.
And then find an alternative The One. And I think that I've found it: "Cullin
" by Mary Henderson (again, note the errata
). And I think that I have some suitable yarn: Rowan's felted tweed chunky Not quite the break from tradition that I was aiming for but for me, but perhaps this is a start.
I am left wondering how I would feel after knitting much more – or even all – of Pumpkin Ale. Would I be quite so willing to discard it? How often would I wear it if complete? I think my maybe my hesitant knitting has saved me from a big disappointment. And given me time to concentrate on my socks. Win win.
* Provided each knitting session is several days in length, undisturbed and fuelled by endless tea and cake = totally improbable ever to happen.
Twas the night before Stitch Gathering
and the only sound in the house
Was the whirr of a sewing machine as fast as a mouse.
While the menfolk all lay resting, asleep in their beds
The crafter among them pulled the hairs from her head!
For the time that she thought she had to sew for her friends
Had gone out of the window and was almost at an end.
One needed a name badge,
Another a bag.
And the other preparation made Katherine's shoulders sag.
"A window", she thought "now that would be fab!"
"Of the cathedral variety on the front of the tag.
I'll cross-stitch the name (it's nice and it's short)
And finish the piece with a knitted i-cord.”
Initially the bag was to be knitted in yarn
But the idea was abandoned as it would be too heavy – oh darn!
So some bright, cheerful fabric was selected as a base
And a pocket knitted to keep precious things safe.
With fabric cut out for her projects of choice - apron and bag -
She picked up her sewing machine and tried not to lag
As she put away her tools, all tidy and neat,
At last excited and looking forward to the quilting retreat.
So, it's done. And yes, I'm pleased – and if we stop feeding Oldest Son, it might last him more than five minutes!
How long has it taken? I checked my calendar as I know exactly when I bought the pattern and yarn: Saturday 2nd March 2013, John Lewis Sheffield, immediately following a colour workshop with the wonderful Bev. I can't remember when I cast on but let's be realistic, it could well have been on the train on the way home – if not, it'll have been shortly afterwards. So a mere 13 months then.
As with many projects, it's not just about the goal, it's the journey to get there. Now I'm not going to get all morbid as I recollect knitting this in hospital corridors but think on the positive and how mother-in-law was among the many who kept me company on this path. Of the many car journeys whose monotony was broken with knitting "Kurt
"; of the pleasure knitting with the yarn (Baby Merino Silk DK
, in case you're interested) and the satisfaction with becoming so quickly in tune with the cabling pattern – after a short while, it became almost instinctive. The delight in discovering a new yarn shop
in which to purchase buttons (and a delightful shop it is too).
Oldest Son’s next project is already underway: A Cornish Gansey. If I manage to keep my needles clicking, it might not end up being such a snug fit.
We have been visited by death. This time he insisted on keeping my mother-in-law for company.
On some levels, I can understand his choice: She's interesting, has a phenomenal memory, patient, kind and a crafter. She'll always be a knitter to me, but that undersells her other crafting interests: She could crochet, sew and was a most proficient cross-stitcher. At least three other reasons why you might want to spend some time with her.
I'm clearly in the "denial" stage of my grief. We lost her only days ago or, perhaps I should say, we can't really have lost her, can we? Yet, under instruction from our father-in-law, sister-in-law and I have sorted through her crafty things. This has not made her passing any more real, though it has allowed me to realise how all our treasured possessions are just "stuff" and are, on some level, meaningless. It truly is about the people. For example, I'm now the owner of some rather lovely knitting books. My current reaction? In all honesty: Indifference. Now, if my mother-in-law had personally gifted even one of these books to me, I would have been thrilled. Absolutely delighted. She and I have a shared love of Kim Hargreaves's designs and I've long admired MIL's copy of Kim's first solo publication "Heartfelt" (one day I'm going to knit myself "Darcy
"). Well, now it's mine. Which is nice but in such a flat, emotionless way. And there are others. I'm sure that my attitude will change over time and perhaps, at some point, you'll allow me to share with you these special, new additions to my library.
As for unfinished projects, there were a couple (by which I mean three): One child's cardigan complete except for the buttons; one child's top (in progress); one crochet blanket, finished bar a short section of border. More than a competent crocheter herself, sister-in-law very kindly completed this and the blanket, MIL's first adventure in crochet for years, is now part of our family home and crafting history. An absence of buttons doesn't count as "knitting" so that leaves one, one project. Since we think that the top was destined for her eldest child, sister-in-law has taken the work to complete. And, just like that, the projects are sorted (well, almost).
Then there was the stash, or lack of it. At least that's what we initially thought as her work basket contained only the yarn she was using plus a few other oddments. Sister-in-law and I were stunned to say the least. And possibly shamed (as we compared hers to the complete frivolity of our own stashes). Thankfully – for our own consciences, I mean – over the next couple of days, father-in-law found a few bags of yarn, mostly comprising gifts that she hadn't got round to using. So, not really stash of her own making – but there was enough to give hint to her own tastes.
Despite my earlier ascertains, very quickly it became too much. Books lost their individual identities just falling under the collective heading of "knitting"; yarn became a blur, loosing its composition, texture even colour. I could barely focus. I didn't want to know, didn't want to look, didn't – don't – want to accept the truth of why we doing this. But I also didn't want to part with any of it. Not just randomly: It had value to MIL and I wanted the next person to appreciate that, if not in the same manner, then in a different but meaningful way. But who am I to dictate how other people's belongings should be distributed, handled, cared for? Who I am to set such high, unrealistic and unfair criteria? Seemingly grief can give a false idea of legacy. Enter MIL's friend and neighbour who, understanding everything – the practicalities, the emotions, everything - took the remainder of the collection for distribution among her crafting friends. To only say "thank you" is completely inadequate but I confess that any other, more suitable words, fail me.
Of course, this isn't the whole story. There's the self-reflection that goes with the loss, particularly when you can connect through a common interest. Can you imagine going through my projects, my stash, my books? More to the point, can you imagine what my MIL would say (let alone my own mother!) with the sheer abundance of stuff? What would they do with it all? Would they get any joy from it or would it be a toil – and, in my case, a very heavy toil?
I realise that now may not be the wisest time to make any decisions about my "stuff" so I'll refrain from giving away all my stash just now, tempted as I am. But I am more committed to knitting it. I'm starting with the yarn that MIL gave me. Too late for her to see the finished work, but – if I start now – not too late for her intended recipient to wear it: Her Oldest Grandson.
Anne, I think of you with every stitch. And your grandsons will be blessed to be wrapped in the enduring love of their Granny.
It's that time of, err, year? life? when people are starting to make noises about Oldest Child and his contemporaries starting school. You probably don't need to be told that it's turning me into a bit of a wreck.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not of the mind to keep him at home: Oldest Son, like most children his age, is keen to learn and explore the world and for me, and for my family, we believe that school is an appropriate place to do this, amongst children his own age and under the care and guidance of a team of motivated and professional teachers. But that doesn't mean that this sometimes over-emotional woman and mother can't mourn the dawning end of this current phase of our lives.
This isn't to say that every one of our days together has been Enid Blyton perfect. Daily mysteries of "where did the time / shoe / car keys go" continue to plague us and despite forays into baking and cordial making, my boys still prefer chocolate over fruit cake and have yet to be introduced to the delights of ginger beer. But there's time. Even with proposed changes to the teaching week, school attendance isn't all day every day – and we, like the millions of others before us, will come to value our evenings, weekends and holidays together.
I'll miss him. That's the honest truth of it. I'll miss our freedom, whole days doing something or nothing, as the mood, wind, rain, sunshine, our interests and energies take us. I've just about got used to the few hours that he spends in nursery but both Youngest Son and I are always delighted to see him at the end of his session – and this is regardless of any baking that he might have been involved in.
I also can't knit for him. Okay, yes, of course I can, but from August, Oldest Son will be wearing a school uniform and one that doesn't include hand knitted jumpers. I'm aware that this sounds extremely hypercritical given, as we've previously discussed, the jacket I currently have on the needles for Oldest Son probably won't even fit him, but there would have been a whole lot of comfort in sending him to school in a jumper that I'd made for him. Comfort for me, obviously. This is all about me. In case you're in any way uncertain about the degree of this fixation, I have even considered knitting jumpers for all of his classmates just so Oldest Son didn't stand out - his class is likely to comprise four children so this isn't quite as ridiculous as it sounds. However, that idea was soon quashed – not because it's nonsense (and of course it is), but because all of his class mates are likely to be in receipt of jumpers from older siblings - so anything from me would be totally and completely surplus to requirement. For a brief moment I considered knitting him socks, but seriously, plain black socks? I'll stop right there.
So he'll just have to go to school in the knowledge that I love him even if he can't wear anything I've knitted for him to prove it. Because clearly that's how love is measured, by the quality and quantity of hand knits. But before we know it, autumn and winter will soon be upon us and then my needles will be free to knit, knit, knit away. At least for the five minutes before he starts rejecting anything and everything that I create for him. Mummy's knitting isn’t always going to be cool.
In the meantime, I’ll get used to it, obviously I will. For one thing I have to and for another, it is a wonderful opportunity to have some quality one-on-one time with Youngest Son. Whole days to do something or nothing……..